“Whomever has the strongest belief about how reality ‘is’ and can communicate it to others most effectively will bring their reality into being” ---DeAngelo In the dominant reality, your needs come first and the decision-making is done by you. You are independent
Consistent with the narcissism/empathy dynamic to male/female dynamics is the dominance/submission dynamic to male/female dynamics. Dominance in a male is a turn on, while submission in a male is a turn off. Dominance indicates good genes while submission indicates bad
In male/female dynamics, there is always going to be dynamics of dominance vs. submission, leading vs. following, narcissism vs. empathy, masculine role vs. feminine role. There is a natural dynamic that feels right for both of the sexes that is
“Women are attracted more by the way you make them feel than to your appearance” ---Xuma The way to make them feel the feelings of attraction is by demonstrating an alpha personality rather than worrying about your appearance.
Though men’s brains are hardwired to experience attraction is the presence of mere physical femininity (appearance), men can learn that attractiveness is a female is a holistic concept including internal factors related to her feminine development such as; philosophy, psychology,
By demonstrating that the male knows the attraction principle through cocky & teasing communication and behavior, the female makes a holistic categorization of high value regardless of looks, wealth, or possessions, as high value. By being nice, he is categorized
When the emotion of attraction is triggered, the emotional part of our brain takes over and overrides our behavior in order to facilitate the creation of healthy and sustainable offspring. This love drive is not something that we have control