This book arose to address the need to sexualize interactions with women early on in order to not land in the friend zone. You see, for my entire life I have been a social guy that was easily able to open women, build attraction and start what I thought was a relationship with them which included many dates with the hope of getting lucky eventually. I was a natural when it came to the initial phases of pickup game including opening, attraction building and transitioning to dating. The issue came with the fact that I was not getting laid. You see, I did not know that it was up to the male to lead the interaction towards sex. I had the woman on a pedestal and assumed that I would offend her to escalate physically with her. As such, the would-be relationship would be moving towards sex but never really got there. When I did have sex, it was because the woman initiated and took the lead. It was like I missed out on the male/female dynamics class that everyone else had.
It was only until I met my friends James (TantraLogic), Taimoor, and Omer that I began asking questions and getting advice. For as many girlfriends I had, I just wasn’t sexually experienced. They introduced me to a concept called the same night lay, which refers to the male and female having sex the same day that they meet eachother. The SNL was the answer to my problems since it was an ideal that should be strived towards in all interractions with women. The male should not be trying to make platonic friends with women, but should be sexualizing the interactions early and often. It is healthy and desired by the female whom wants sex just as much if not more than the male. Instead of ending up in the friend zone, go for the same night lay and pull the girl. She will respect you more for it and allow the tension to exist.
The same night lay is a concept that serves as an ideal in male/female dynamics where sex happens early for the male and spontaneously for the female, allowing both to fulfill their greatest fantasies.
This book and the course is truly my life’s work, and I hope that you find it as transformative as it has been for myself and countless others.
Michael Herlache MBA
Doctor of Business Administration Candidate 2025
Founder of Alpha University