The Male Archetype is Escalating Always Without Permission
The male archetype, alpha, has a built in dynamic of physical escalation always. This is integrated with the attractive male personality associated with push/pull and touching.
The male archetype escalating without permission is the ultimate female fantasy and she does not play an active role in her own seduction and sex “just happens” spontaneously.
I remember when I was younger and about to have sex with a girl that I had oneitis for, I asked her for permission to put it in. Without knowing it, I immediately killed attraction and she then proceeded to put her clothes on and leave. By being the nice guy and asking for permission, I destroyed her fantasy of being taken by me. We had up until that time been making out periodically through the night and had been seeing each other.