How to Date?
The concept of dating is different for the alpha male and the pickup artist. ‘How to date’ may in fact not be the appropriate question since dating is not the goal. Rather, the question should be:
How to find and build a relationship with a feminine female, beta female, and obtain ubiquitous sex?
In order to find a beta female, you first need to know what a beta female is and how she differs from an alpha female.
One of the main differentiating qualities of a beta female that is so attractive is empathy and gratefulness. Alpha females are narcissistic and try to impose their will on others including males. This is a demonstration of lower value (DLV) that is a turn off to males. Remember that the natural archetypal male/female dynamic is the male pursuing his intentionality and leading the interaction towards love and sex. The beta female displays empathy, a form of love, in addition to pursuing her own natural attraction to the male by following the alpha male’s lead. Beta and followership go hand in hand and followership in a female is a demonstration of higher value (DHV). Beta is synonymous with high value for the female. The male is evolutionarily programmed to select, have sex with, build love with, and commit with a beta female. Beta is femininity. Femininity is defined by the female’s focus, and passion in philosophy, love, and health. The beta (feminine) female sees her primary role in life as love with a male.
Another distinguishing factor between the beta female and the alpha female is that of emotionaility. The beta female is associated with observing and espousing positive emotionality that impacts others around her and is a DHV. The beta female displays this positive emotionality and is a pleasure to be around. The alpha female is associated with observing and espousing negative emotionality that is toxic to others around her and this is a DLV.
The female’s natural leadership is love leadership, where she finds ways to increase closeness and affection moving the interaction with an alpha male towards exclusivity. The male leads in physicality and the female empathetically responds with love. This creates a true love dynamic which is to be increased continuously through time. The beta female keeps her focus on her alpha male and love with him.
The alpha female on the other hand is narcissistic, not part of the female’s nature and seeks to control the interaction and does not act on her responsibility for empathetic love leadership. She fills her life with things other than love especially and including a career which she ultimately uses as an excuse as to why she does not pursue true love with a male. She does not have a love drive and this is due to her subscribing to various victim philosophies including feminism that portray the female as a victim of the male.
Additionally, in order to understand dating itself, you are going to need to know the difference between an alpha male and a pickup artist.
Alpha is synonymous with high value for the male. The female is evolutionarily programmed to select, have sex with, build love with, and commit with an alpha male. The reason why alpha is high value for the male as it is associated with leadership, or the owning of one’s intentions and the execution of one’s intentions. This shows ambition and not beta, or supplication, to others. Alpha males lead the interaction towards love and sex and this is desired by the female even though she may need verbalize this to the male. Her body language and IOIs communicate this approval and attraction to the alpha male automatically without her even thinking about it.
As discussed, alpha is the gender archetype for the male. Alpha is masculinity. Masculinity is defined by the male’s focus, passion, and intensity in the four aspects of life; philosophy, love, health, and finance. An alpha male sees his primary role in life as love with a beta (feminine) female as well as the building of a perpetuity.
Alpha Male vs. Beta Male Behavior
Alpha behavior, or masculine behavior, is associated with leadership. Beta behavior, or feminine behavior, is associated with followership. The male should endeavor to always be leading the interaction with the female and thus be displaying high value alpha behavior. The male should eliminate being a follower in the interaction with the female and displaying low value beta behavior.
The Pickup Artist
A pickup artist is a concept associated with a male that focuses exclusively on the mastery of the first phase of game, pickup game. He focuses on optionality rather than intimacy and lacks a long term perspective on male female relations.
The pickup artist emerged as a reaction to feminism and the alpha female culture of the West where the male was nolonger viewed as an essential part of a happy life for the female and the loss of the love drive for the Western female.
While pickup is an essential part of game, the first phase, the concept of the pickup artist is not the goal itself for the male but ultimately marks a phase for the male before he fully matures and seeks love with a beta female.