Attractiveness as a Holistic Concept
Though men’s brains are hardwired to experience attraction is the presence of mere physical femininity (appearance), men can learn that attractiveness is a female is a holistic concept including internal factors related to her feminine development such as; philosophy, psychology, personality and behavior. As men learn this, the neurological structure of their brains changes to incorporate these updates accordingly. Seeing attractiveness as a holistic concept means raising our standards and being like a high value male that has the experience of sex already being ubiquitous. Since he gets sex all the time anyways, he looks for things in women other than mere appearances. The high value male plays hard to get with women, qualifies them more, is less nice, and does not approval seek with them.
Up until now, attractiveness for men has simply meant looks. It is important for the high status male